Create Tidymess interface for AMUSE

[elkogerville]

Create the interface for the TIdal DYnamics of Multi-body ExtraSolar Systems code.
This is an N-body code which also tracks the mass distribution of each body and its deformation due to tidal forces.

• Compile the code with the new build system
  • Setup configure script and amuse_deps
• Implement TidymessInterface (interface.py)
  • Implement setters and getters
  • Implement adding and removing particles
• Implement Tidymess (interface.py)
  • Implement methods
  • Implement parameters
  • Implement Properties
  • Change user api to use lod, obl, & psi instead of wx, wy, wz
• Implement interface.cc
• Implement stopping conditions
• Verify that the AMUSE version of Tidymess is coherent with the standalone package