[branch-53] fix: use try_shrink instead of shrink in try_resize (#20424) (#20890)

- Part of #19692

This PR:
- Backports #20424 from
@ariel-miculas to the branch-53 line

Co-authored-by: Ariel Miculas-Trif <ariel.miculas@gmail.com>

Author: alamb

datafusion/execution/src/memory_pool/mod.rs

@@ -434,7 +434,9 @@ impl MemoryReservation {
         let size = self.size.load(atomic::Ordering::Relaxed);
         match capacity.cmp(&size) {
             Ordering::Greater => self.try_grow(capacity - size)?,
-            Ordering::Less => self.shrink(size - capacity),
+            Ordering::Less => {
+                self.try_shrink(size - capacity)?;
+            }
             _ => {}
         };
         Ok(())