[branch-52] fix: InList Dictionary filter pushdown type mismatch (#20962) (#20997)

- Part of #20855
- Closes #20997 on branch-52

This PR:
- Backports #20962 from
@erratic-pattern to the branch-52 line
- Backports the related tests from
#20960

Co-authored-by: Adam Curtis <adam.curtis.dev@gmail.com>

Author: alamb