Update astral-tokio-tar to appease cargo_audit (#21902)

## Which issue does this PR close?


- Closes #21901

## Rationale for this change

Get a clean CI

## What changes are included in this PR?

Run 
```shell
cargo update -p astral-tokio-tar
```

And then check in the results

## Are these changes tested?

By CI

## Are there any user-facing changes?

No (and this library is used in testing, not in DataFusion)

Author: alamb