Update protobuf's upb dep to latest upb protobuf dep update commit (#11907)

Author: zhangskz

build_defs/upb.patch

@@ -9,22 +9,4 @@
  # end:github_only
 
  def _upbc(stage):
- 
---- cmake/build_defs.bzl
-+++ cmake/build_defs.bzl
-@@ -25,7 +25,7 @@
- 
- """Bazel support functions related to CMake support."""
- 
--def staleness_test(name, outs, generated_pattern, target_files = None, **kwargs):
-+def staleness_test(name, outs, generated_pattern, target_files = None, tags = [], **kwargs):
-     """Tests that checked-in file(s) match the contents of generated file(s).
- 
-     The resulting test will verify that all output files exist and have the
-@@ -72,5 +72,6 @@ def staleness_test(name, outs, generated_pattern, target_files = None, **kwargs)
-         deps = [
-             Label("//cmake:staleness_test_lib"),
-         ],
-+        tags = ["staleness_test"] + tags,
-         **kwargs
-     )
+