[ISSUE #9847] Reduce lock contention on the HandleData object to prevent threads from hanging

[qianye1001]

Change-Id: I9f233816eb3720505f0389369da0267c2d47beed

Which Issue(s) This PR Fixes

Fixes #9847

Brief Description

How Did You Test This Change?

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 84.00000% with 4 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 48.28%. Comparing base (7a1a950) to head (bd88552).
⚠️ Report is 4 commits behind head on develop.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
.../org/apache/rocketmq/proxy/config/ProxyConfig.java	50.00%	2 Missing ⚠️
...y/service/receipt/DefaultReceiptHandleManager.java	83.33%	0 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@              Coverage Diff              @@
##             develop    #9848      +/-   ##
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- Coverage      48.32%   48.28%   -0.04%     
+ Complexity     12250    12248       -2     
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  Files           1314     1314              
  Lines          93785    93884      +99     
  Branches       12033    12044      +11     
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+ Hits           45322    45335      +13     
- Misses         42856    42922      +66     
- Partials        5607     5627      +20     

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[lollipopjin]

LGTM