feat(sedona-spatial-join): Fix for the customized join provider that may not take effective

[pwrliang]

We have provided a method (#722) with_spatial_join_provider to overwrite the DefaultSpatialJoinProvider with a customized one by calling with_spatial_join_provider ofSpatialJoinExec.

    pub fn with_spatial_join_provider(
        mut self,
        join_provider: Arc<dyn SpatialJoinProvider>,
    ) -> Self {
        self.join_provider = join_provider;
        self
    }

However, there are many methods in SpatialJoinExec, such as swap_inputs, that return a modified SpatialJoinExec by calling try_new_internal, which binds join_provider to DefaultSpatialJoinProvider again. We need to call with_spatial_join_provider after the returning of a SpatialJoinExec object to overwrite it.

[pwrliang]

Do you prefer this modification or add an extra parameter join_provider to the constructors of SpatialJoinExec? @paleolimbot

[paleolimbot]

Thank you!